So here is the deal . . . I have been with my fianc? for about five and half years. We have been engaged since February 2008. We are very much in love, have a wonderful relationship, and I am confident that our relationship will last forever, we have been through a lot together many good and bad times, and I?would not trade him for anything in this world. I count my blessings everyday and feel very lucky to have found a man that is so perfect for me at such a young age. I am twenty-three. My fianc? is twenty-nine, and will be turning thirty in February . . .
However, I am having some issues. For one, I am dying to get married . . . we have been together for what I?feel is a long time, and I want to make things official. We have been living together for almost our entire relationship and I really want to be married. I imagined we would be married by now and us not being is really beginning to bother me. My parents were together for sixty years, but never officially married . . . I don?t want this to be me. I want to have children also, but I want to be married first. The problem with all this is we are completely and utterly broke. I have a decent job, that I got by the grace of God, however my fianc? does not have a reliable job . . . He works hard don?t get me wrong, right now he has two jobs but both of them pay minimum wage and together we are just getting by. We make enough money to pay all the bills and survive in between but we have absolutely no extra money, and debt that is not going away any time soon, based on us usually only paying the minimum payments. We have no health insurance, no savings etc. Just getting by.
I have accepted the fact that I will probably never have the wedding I have always wanted, and would be happy to have a small inexpensive but nice wedding, but we can?t even afford this . . .
Source: http://www.divinecaroline.com/22072/115918-marriage-starting-family
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